I’ve known I had polycystic kidney disease for over 30 years. Living with this has required a level of resilience I never imagined. Kidney disease isn’t just about declining numbers or fatigue—it’s the emotional weight, the constant uncertainty, and the moments you realize how much you’ve missed.
I’ve always been a hard worker, someone my family and friends could count on. But lately, I find myself tiring more easily, unable to help out or plan trips like I used to. I worry about a future tied to dialysis, losing the freedom to live life on my own terms.
Through all of this, it’s my people who keep me strong—Karen, my wife, who has been my rock; my kids, Stephanie, Adam, and even Richard Jr., though we’re distant now. My close friends Frank and Teri, who stand by me, and my community through the Sheriff’s Citizens Patrol, who give me a reason to keep showing up.
I’m still hopeful. I’m praying for a living kidney donor to step forward. Living donors don’t just save a life—they give someone the chance to travel again, to grow old with family, to keep building memories. Many donors say it gives them a profound sense of purpose, and that they’d do it again in a heartbeat.
If you’ve ever thought about it, please visit my GiftWorks website and complete the short, confidential form. You’ll get guidance from a Living Donor Navigator—someone who’s donated before and truly understands. Learn more here: https://giftworksuuh.com/richardm/
Thank you for being part of my story. Maybe together, we’ll find that miracle.
